Imagine a church that was totally devoid of love . . . the people showed up at the building, assembled in classrooms and in sanctuaries, sang the songs, listened to the speaker, and then went out to eat. Some people were loving with words of encouragement, big hugs, prayers, pouring cups of coffee, and in times of teaching. Many were just there to receive . . . to consume. Imagine everyone engaging their gifting with a love. Would the church be different?
So often, we tend to isolate 1 Corinthians 13 and never allow it to remain in its original context—the beauty of the church. We read it at weddings and we pick apart all that love is, or should be, but we never seem to see this virtue left in context. To see this you need to read 1 Corinthians 12 and let it carry over into chapter 13.
Therefore, after discussing the virtue of the gifting of the Holy Spirit and the “mixing” of those gifts by God in order to create this beautiful convergence of humanity, Paul feels the need to infuse the idea of love. At no point in 1 Corinthians 12 is the word “love” mentioned, and I would like to think Paul caught himself, and used the following chapter to make sure the church was a place of deep affinity and never became a place that rested its success solely on obligation, responsibility, and duty.
To that end, he begins the 13th chapter by listing a few of the more prominent gifts distributed by the Godhead: tongues, prophecy, knowledge, faith, and generosity. He paints the grandest picture of these gifts . . .
“If I speak with the languages of men and angels . . .”
“If I understand all mysteries and all knowledge . . .”
“If I donate all my goods . . .”
Do you see the greatness of these ideal church members? They do not just give their tithe, they cover the entire church budget. They do not just have a good point in Sunday School, they wrote the quarterly. The do not just have the ability to speak in tongues, they can even communicate in the same way the angels spoke to men. That is some serious talent! God must really love them! They are so valuable, right?
What value does God give to talent? To knowledge? To our acts of generosity or sacrifice? What value do we give to them? Do you ever wonder what you would have done if you had been Samuel, having been sent to Jesse’s house to anoint the new king? When the oldest son, Eliab, walked in the room . . . what did Samuel say? Did God concur? Just like I would have done, Samuel looked at the outward appearance, but God looked at the heart.
In the same way, God has no regard for talent in the church any more than he did for the appearance of Eliab (one of the mighty warriors hiding from Goliath one chapter later). For what does God have great regard?
Picture the chaos of the Passover season in Jerusalem. The wealthy and the talented are lining up to put their money into the offering plate. It is a spectacle! Jesus and His disciples are sitting across from the collection plates, and all of a sudden, Jesus huddles up the boys . . . “Did you just see THAT?!” I imagine they mistakenly thought Jesus was speaking of the bells and whistles of the rich pouring in their overflow, but Jesus never even acknowledged them or their gifts . . . you see, they got their reward in full—the applause of men. Jesus was referring to a widow who had just dropped in two small coins.
What value does God give to your talents?
In each of the cases Paul presents of abundant gifting, he presents a caveat: If the gift is not expressed with love (“agape” . . . absolute love) then it is just noise, it is nothing, and God has no regard for it.
So what are the gifts supposed to achieve? What if love was infused into the expression of every gifting? What would that look like on Sunday morning, and more importantly on Monday through Saturday?
The last time Paul used the word “love” (“agape”) in his first letter to the church in Corinth was in his discussion of food sacrificed to idols, if you recall, his initial answer to that question was not a cut and dried ethical dictum, in fact, it was a reprimand for the believers who were flexing their spiritual knowledge without regard for the spiritual weakness of the less mature believers. Recall Paul’s stern words . . .
“Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies.”
What would it look like? It would look like person after person being carefully instructed, comforted, and discipled. It would look like needs being sacrificially met—both physical and spiritual. It would look like one man nobly coming to the rescue of his brother who was caught up in sin. It would look like people praying. It would be a beautiful convergence . . .
So keep your gifting to yourself if you cannot infuse it with love for others. Be patient as you teach and as you instruct. Be kind as you serve. Never envy others’ giftings as you share God’s word. Do not become boastful as if your faith was your own resolve. There is no room for conceit in your ability to discern good and evil. Acting improperly has no place in the administration of the church. To seek your own agenda does not work well when you are speaking the word of God. To have the gift of healing and the vice of provocation is ultimately harmful. Keeping a record of wrongs is not helpful under any condition. The one who is truly gifted by God will always gravitate to truth and beauty as he teaches, helps, serves, shares, heals, and loves.
And, by the way, all these giftings that the Holy Spirit is imparting to each and everyone in the church, they are all going to pass away. They are all temporary. They all serve their purpose, and they are no more, so be careful not to get too impressed with your gift. Oh, these gifts are crucial now, but “then” is coming.
Prophecy will be meaningless when we can all hear the voice of God.
Languages, or speaking in tongues, will have no value in God’s kingdom.
Knowledge will be mere trivia before the Throne of the Omniscient.
So what will do with these giftings today? What will you do with them on Sunday as your church gathers? Imagine the beautiful convergence of a loving church, singularly united in purpose and ambition. I think this church idea was pretty good.
Why don’t we chase it down?
Why don’t we see it through?
I know it will get sticky. I know it will cost us. I know it will lead to entanglements and hassles. It might even lead to organ donations, but do you really have anything better to do? Who knows, it might just change the world? Your failure to love has not done much, has it?
Trust the Spirit’s words written by Paul . . .
“But the greatest of these is love.”